Understanding the Silent Treatment in Relationships
The Situation
"She gives me the silent treatment when she's upset"
The Brutal Truth
Giving the silent treatment is emotional manipulation. It means she’s avoiding conflict resolution and using silence to control the narrative. Instead of communicating openly, she's punishing you for her own feelings instead of addressing them constructively.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase her for answers, feeling desperate for clarity. This is wrong because it reinforces her toxic behavior; it places your worth in her hands instead of valuing your own peace and boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to establish to ensure my emotional health comes first in any relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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