What Accusing You of Cheating Says About His Insecurities
The Situation
"He accuses me of cheating but he's the one acting suspicious"
The Brutal Truth
His accusation of cheating is a classic projection. He's acting out his own insecurities, trying to control the narrative while blaming you for faults he sees in himself. It's a toxic attempt to deflect his issues onto you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-explain, beg for reassurance, or try to appease him, thinking that will resolve the suspicion. This only reinforces his behavior, allowing him to maintain control and deepening the cycle of distrust.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What do you need in a partner to feel secure, and how can you confidently communicate those needs?
✨ What To Do Next
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