He Wants Another Chance but Refuses Therapy: Red Flags Ahead
The Situation
"He wants another chance but won't go to therapy"
The Brutal Truth
He’s trying to keep you in a holding pattern—wanting another chance without taking real responsibility or making changes. He’s not committed to true growth. This is manipulation and a blatant lack of respect for your needs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling to hope, convincing themselves that love is enough and that they can change him. This is a dangerous mindset, as it leads to self-neglect and continued toxic patterns.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about my self-worth if I'm willing to accept less than I deserve for the sake of someone else's comfort?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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