Why Being Called His 'Babysitter' is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"His friends call me the babysitter because I don't drink"
The Brutal Truth
His friends label you as a babysitter because your sobriety makes them uncomfortable. This suggests he and his friends view relationships as carefree and irresponsible, undermining your maturity and self-worth. It’s disrespectful and reflects commitment issues.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-explain their choices to fit in or question their self-worth by thinking they need to change who they are to be accepted. This is harmful and dismisses their true self.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How does being labeled reflect on your self-worth, and what do you need to feel valued in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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