Understanding Breaches of Privacy in Dating
The Situation
"She reads my private notes under the excuse of curiosity"
The Brutal Truth
This 'curiosity' speaks volumes about her lack of respect for your boundaries. It's a serious invasion of privacy and a red flag for trust issues in the relationship. If she can't honor your privacy, how can you expect her to respect you?
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to explain, justify, or even apologize for having their notes read, thinking it will diffuse the situation. This is the wrong move because it only reinforces that their boundaries can be crossed without consequence.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How do I define and communicate my boundaries in relationships, and why do I struggle to enforce them?
✨ What To Do Next
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