Why Bringing a Dog Unannounced Is a Big Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He brings his dog over without notice even though I'm allergic"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior shows a blatant disregard for your needs and boundaries. He prioritizes his desires over your health, indicating a lack of respect and consideration. This is a clear signal that he may not value you as a partner.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might downplay their allergy and try to accommodate him, fearing that rejecting his gesture might push him away. This is wrong because it neglects their own well-being and needs.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to establish in your relationships to feel safe and respected?
✨ What To Do Next
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