Why Saying 'Let's Catch Up' But Never Following Through Is Toxic
The Situation
"He said we should catch up sometime but never does"
The Brutal Truth
He’s playing with your time. Saying he wants to catch up is an empty gesture; he lacks genuine interest or commitment. It’s a manipulation tactic to keep you on the line without intention.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might keep reaching out for clarity or trying to convince him to meet. This only reinforces his inconsistent behavior and minimizes their self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does this situation teach you about your own worth and what you should expect in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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