Why He Won't Discuss a Cleaning Schedule Signals Big Red Flags
The Situation
"He won't discuss a cleaning schedule"
The Brutal Truth
His refusal to discuss a cleaning schedule shows a lack of respect for shared responsibilities. It indicates he's avoiding necessary conversations, which is a pattern of emotional unavailability that can leave you feeling unsupported and unvalued in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might insist on discussing it urgently or become passive-aggressive, fearing that this disagreement means the relationship is ending. This approach is wrong because it ignores healthier conflict resolution and encourages dependence on his response for validation.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do I need to feel respected in shared responsibilities within a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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