When Your Partner Critiques but Refuses to Learn: Red Flags
The Situation
"He refuses to read any parenting books but critiques me"
The Brutal Truth
He’s too arrogant to acknowledge his shortcomings, believing he can criticize without putting in the effort to be a better partner or parent. His refusal to learn shows a lack of respect for you and your needs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try harder to please him, over-explaining their choices and seeking his approval. This is a trap! It reinforces his behavior and diminishes your worth. Remember: you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to set to ensure your needs are respected in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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