Should You Date Someone Who Expects You to Pay Their Fees?
The Situation
"She won't travel anywhere without her dog but expects me to pay fees"
The Brutal Truth
She prioritizes her dog over you and expects you to absorb costs without considering your feelings. This shows entitlement and a lack of understanding of fair give-and-take in relationships. It’s a red flag about her expectations and selfishness.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might bend over backwards to accommodate her demands, convincing themselves this is necessary to keep her happy. This path leads to resentment and reinforces unhealthy patterns.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would a balanced relationship look like for you, and what boundaries do you need to establish to protect your worth?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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