Dating a Man Who Does the Bare Minimum: Red Flags to Watch
The Situation
"He does the bare minimum and expects praise"
The Brutal Truth
He’s putting in minimal effort while banking on your validation. This is a classic case of entitlement and emotional manipulation. He wants you to reward him for actions that should be basic expectations in any healthy relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might constantly seek his validation, showering him with praise for the little he does. This only reinforces his behavior and undermines their self-worth. It's important to remember that you deserve more than just the bare minimum.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you should settle for less than you deserve?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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