When Dating Red Flags Show Up: Understanding Mixed Signals in Relationships
The Situation
"He says investing in crypto counts as savings"
The Brutal Truth
He’s not really taking your future seriously. By calling crypto a savings option, he’s downplaying traditional stability in favor of risky choices, showcasing a lack of responsibility and maturity. It’s a red flag for potential commitment issues.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsess over proving him wrong, trying to convince him otherwise to get validation, which only leads to further frustration and insecurity. You don't need to fight for his approval.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What financial values do you hold, and how do they reflect your self-worth in relationships? Are you willing to compromise those values for someone who isn't committed?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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