Why Dismissing Your Feelings in Dating is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"She dismisses my problems and says men don't have feelings"
The Brutal Truth
She's invalidating your feelings to avoid connection and responsibility. This suggests emotional unavailability and a refusal to engage in a mature relationship where both partners can express vulnerability and support each other. It’s a sign she doesn’t value your emotional needs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to prove their worth by downplaying their own feelings and prioritizing her perspective, believing it will win her approval. This is utterly wrong! Compromising your needs for someone else's validation only deepens the toxicity and undermines your self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
"What does it say about my needs and boundaries if I'm willing to tolerate someone who dismisses my feelings?"
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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