Why Dismissing Your Opinions Is a Major Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He dismisses my opinions and talks over me"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior shows a blatant disrespect for you and your voice. He's asserting dominance in the conversation, making it clear that he values his opinions over yours. This is not a partnership; it's a power play where your input doesn’t matter.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to over-explain their opinions or seek validation through excessive reassurance. This is wrong because it compromises your self-worth and allows him to maintain control over the dynamic.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If you were to truly value your opinions, how would you choose to communicate this in your next conversation?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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