Why Dismissing Concerns Is a Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"She said I'm overreacting to valid concerns"
The Brutal Truth
She belittles your valid worries to avoid accountability, implying your feelings are invalid. This reflects a significant lack of respect for your emotions, showing an unwillingness to engage in healthy communication or resolve conflicts responsibly.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince her they're not overreacting by over-explaining their feelings, which only validates her dismissal and perpetuates their insecurity. This is wrong because it diminishes their self-worth further and doesn't encourage healthy boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize your feelings and set a boundary around dismissive behavior?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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