Confusing Dating Signals: Exclusive But Posting As Single?
The Situation
"She posts like she's single but says we're exclusive"
The Brutal Truth
He’s either unclear about what he wants or he doesn’t respect your relationship enough to keep it off social media. Posting like she’s single suggests he might not be fully committed or is seeking attention elsewhere, which is a huge red flag.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might constantly check their partner's social media or feel the need to confront them out of insecurity. This is wrong because it feeds into insecurity and might come off as needy, pushing their partner further away.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do you really need from a partner to feel secure in your relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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