Why Feeling Not Good Enough in Dating Signals Deeper Issues
The Situation
"I feel like I'm not good enough for her"
The Brutal Truth
His statement reflects deep insecurities that may lead to self-sabotage. Instead of recognizing inherent worth, he projects his deficiencies onto the relationship. This mindset indicates a lack of confidence and a potential fear of vulnerability, placing unnecessary pressure on both parties.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize or excessively seek reassurance from her, pushing her away instead. This neediness stems from insecurity and can create a toxic cycle, as it fails to address his self-worth issues directly.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would you do differently in your dating life if you truly believed you were enough, just as you are?
✨ What To Do Next
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