Ghosting Therapy Promises: Understanding Mixed Signals in Dating
The Situation
"He promises to find a therapist then ghosts the idea"
The Brutal Truth
His empty promises about therapy show he lacks accountability and commitment. Ghosting the idea means he isn’t ready to confront his issues. It’s a clear sign he’s emotionally unavailable and isn’t taking your relationship seriously.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after him, seeking explanations and reassurance, but this only feeds his emotional unavailability. If he wanted to change, he would show commitment instead of ghosting.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to convince someone to take their healing seriously?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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