Understanding the Silence: When He Kisses You Goodnight But Ghosts You
The Situation
"He kissed me goodnight then didn't text for three days"
The Brutal Truth
A kiss goodnight means he's attracted, but his silence screams he's inconsistent and emotionally unavailable. He either isn't serious or has commitment issues. Don’t let a kiss mislead you; his behavior reflects his true intentions.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsessively check his social media, overanalyze every interaction, and reach out multiple times to seek reassurance. This is wrong because it feeds into the unhealthy pattern of chasing validation instead of prioritizing their own self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only invest in relationships where your presence is actively desired and reciprocated?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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