Why It's Problematic When He Makes All the Decisions in a Relationship
The Situation
"He makes all the decisions in the relationship"
The Brutal Truth
He's asserting control over you, disregarding your needs and preferences. This behavior shows he prioritizes his desires over a partnership. It’s a power play, not love, and it erodes your autonomy.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
If you’re anxious, you might go along with his decisions to keep the peace, believing it’ll make him love you more. But this undermines your self-worth and fosters resentment instead.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to be in a relationship where your voice and desires matter just as much as his?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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