He Only Shows Interest in Me When it Leads to Sex
The Situation
"He only wants to see me when it leads to sex"
The Brutal Truth
He's treating you as a means to an end, using you for physical pleasure without regard for your emotional needs. This makes it clear he’s not interested in a deeper connection or relationship; he’s only playing games.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may cling to him, hoping that sex will change his mind and lead to something more. This is misguided; it compromises your self-worth and keeps you in a cycle of unfulfilling dynamics.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would loving yourself look like in this situation?
✨ What To Do Next
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