Her Mom's Critiques: Red Flags in Dating Dynamics
The Situation
"Her mom critiques my cooking whenever I'm in the kitchen"
The Brutal Truth
His cooking is constantly undermined because you're dating him, showing a lack of respect for boundaries and an attempt to undermine his confidence. This dynamic highlights a toxic issue of passive-aggressive behavior disguising itself as constructive criticism.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to win over her mom by altering his cooking or asking for her approval, which is a wrong move because it disregards his self-worth and allows the toxic behavior to continue unchecked.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels you need to impress or gain approval from others, even at the cost of your own self-respect?
✨ What To Do Next
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