Why Hiding a Relationship on Social Media is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He hides our relationship on social media"
The Brutal Truth
He doesn't want anyone to know you're together because he may not be fully committed or wants to keep his options open. Your relationship is undervalued, and he’s not prioritizing you the way you deserve.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start over-analyzing his behavior, reaching out repeatedly for validation, or trying to prove their worth by being overly accommodating. This often leads to losing sight of their own needs and self-value.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do I fear the most about being open about my relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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