Why Hiding Spending Habits in a Relationship Is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"She hides packages so I don't see how much she's spending"
The Brutal Truth
This behavior shows she feels the need to hide her spending, indicating a fear of judgment or conflict. It suggests a lack of transparency and trust in the relationship, which can lead to deeper issues down the line.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might confront her aggressively, demanding honesty. This often leads to further conflict and doesn't address the root issue: a lack of open communication and trust.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to set for myself regarding financial transparency in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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