Understanding Insecurity: When Jealousy in Relationships Digs Deep
The Situation
"He's jealous of my male friends but has female friends"
The Brutal Truth
His jealousy over your male friends exposes his insecurity and possessiveness. Yet, he keeps female friends, signaling a double standard. This behavior reflects his need for control and reveals a lack of trust in your relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might downplay their feelings, trying to appease him by limiting friendships or seeking constant reassurance. This is wrong because it compromises your self-worth and allows toxic behavior to persist.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
If you could rewrite your relationship expectations, what would they look like?
✨ What To Do Next
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