Why Involving Friends in Private Arguments Is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She involves her friends in our private arguments"
The Brutal Truth
She lacks boundary awareness and is unable to handle conflict maturely, relying on external validation instead. This behavior shows insecurity and a need for approval rather than commitment to resolving issues directly with you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may try to appease her or reach out to her friends to explain the situation, thinking it's a way to resolve the conflict. This is the wrong move because it puts your dignity at risk and perpetuates unhealthy dynamics.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
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✨ What To Do Next
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