Why Getting Upset When Your Partner Talks to Other Women Is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She gets upset when I talk to other women"
The Brutal Truth
His jealousy shows possessiveness, not love. He wants to control who you interact with, indicating insecurity and potential manipulation. This isn't about caring; it's about his discomfort with your independence and his need for validation.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overly reassure him, compromising their own needs for validation. This is wrong because it prioritizes his feelings over their own self-worth and healthy boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize your own comfort and boundaries over someone else's insecurities?
✨ What To Do Next
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