Why Matching Twice and Ghosting Signals Toxic Dating Behavior
The Situation
"He matched with me twice and ghosted both times"
The Brutal Truth
He matched with you twice only to ghost you, showing a lack of respect and genuine interest. This behavior reflects his commitment issues and inability to communicate, leaving you in an emotional limbo.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsess over what they did wrong or try to re-initiate contact, believing they must chase to validate their worth. This is toxic; it reinforces his inconsistency and undermines your self-esteem.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only date someone who genuinely values your presence and communicates clearly?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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