Why Mixed Signals in Dating Lead to Heartache
The Situation
"She said we should do this again but ignores my follow-up texts"
The Brutal Truth
She said she wants to see you again, but now she’s ghosting your texts. That means she’s playing games and doesn’t respect your time or feelings. She’s leaving you hanging, showing emotional unavailability and a lack of genuine interest in pursuing connection.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overload her with texts trying to convince her to respond, desperately seeking clarity. This is wrong because it compromises your self-respect and sends the message that you’re willing to chase someone who isn’t invested.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If you could only invest your energy in partners who are consistently excited to engage with you, how would your dating life look different?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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