Understanding Mixed Signals: Is He Really That Into You?
The Situation
"He likes other girls' thirst traps but barely likes my posts"
The Brutal Truth
His liking of other girls' thirst traps shows he's not emotionally invested in you. It signals that he seeks validation from elsewhere while disregarding your presence. This behavior reflects a lack of respect for your feelings and needs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel the urge to overanalyze his behavior, seeking his attention and approval. They could bombard him with messages or questions hoping to elicit reassurance. This is wrong because it reinforces his indifferent behavior and undermines their self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does this pattern reveal about your own needs and how you perceive your worth in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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