When He Says Money Doesn't Matter But Criticizes Your Job
The Situation
"He said money doesn't matter but judges me for my job"
The Brutal Truth
He’s pretending not to care about money, but deep down he holds judgments about your worth based on your job. It’s manipulative and shows he doesn’t respect your contributions or who you are.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to change their job or how they present it to seem more appealing to him. This is a mistake because it compromises self-worth and authenticity.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How do I define my self-worth independent of others' opinions?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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