Why Moving In Too Soon Is a Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"She wants me to move in but we barely know each other"
The Brutal Truth
She is rushing things because she's insecure and possibly craving validation. This is a huge red flag indicating emotional unavailability on her part, showing she's seeking intense closeness without a solid foundation or real connection. It's a serious warning sign.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to say yes, thinking they'll lose the relationship otherwise. But this is a recipe for resentment and pushes them into compromising their own needs. It’s not about fitting into someone else’s timeline.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels compelled to say yes to something that doesn’t feel right?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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