Why Saying 'I'm Not Like Other Guys' is a Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He said he's not like other guys and puts down all men"
The Brutal Truth
His claim about being different reveals insecurity and a desperate need for validation. By putting down all men, he's deflecting his personal flaws and attempting to position himself as superior. This isn’t authentic; it’s manipulative.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling to his words, seeking his validation and possibly changing themselves to fit his vision of the 'ideal partner.' This is dangerous because it neglects their own needs and self-worth, leading to toxic dependency.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels that you have to settle for someone who discredits others to feel special?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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