Why Not Texting After a Great Date Signals Red Flags
The Situation
"He said he had a great time but hasn't texted since the date"
The Brutal Truth
He flaked after claiming he had a good time, which means he’s either not serious or playing games. Great dates don’t guarantee interest; his silence screams ‘I’m not invested’ loud and clear.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might bombard him with texts or try to justify his lack of communication, thinking they can somehow change his mind. This is misguided because it only shows you’re willing to chase what isn’t reciprocated.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only pursue connections where you're met with consistent communication and respect?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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