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When Your Partner's Friends Fight With You Online: What It Means

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 8/10
#red-flags#social-media#boundaries#trust-issues

The Situation

"Her friends pick fights with me online and she says nothing"

The Brutal Truth

She's allowing her friends to disrespect you, showing her priorities are elsewhere. Her silence speaks volumes about her lack of support, and you may be tolerating toxic behavior. It's time to reevaluate if this relationship truly values you.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person might over-apologize or try to appease her friends to gain acceptance, thinking that will resolve the conflict. This move is wrong because it undermines your self-worth and allows toxicity to thrive instead of setting healthy boundaries.

đź’­ Something to Reflect On

If you had a friend in this situation, what advice would you give them about standing up for their worth?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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You don't have to figure this out alone. Let's work together to help you trust yourself, set boundaries, and attract the love you deserve.

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