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What It Means When She Wants to Get Pregnant But Avoids Timing Discussions

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 8/10
#commitment-issues#red-flags#communication#future-planning

The Situation

"She wants to be pregnant right now and won't discuss timing"

The Brutal Truth

She’s fixated on having a baby now, but dodges any talk about planning. This indicates a lack of respect for mutual decision-making, potentially reflecting deeper issues with commitment or emotional readiness. It’s all about her urgency, not your partnership.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person might avoid addressing the topic, fearing it could lead to conflict or rejection. This is wrong because it allows unhealthy patterns to continue unchallenged, sacrificing personal needs for the sake of perceived peace.

💭 Something to Reflect On

How aligned are your life goals with your partner's, and what impact does that have on your sense of self-worth?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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Mariana - Relationship Coach

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