Why Refusing to Teach Kids Your Language is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She won't let me teach our kids my language"
The Brutal Truth
He wants to impose his beliefs and control family decisions without considering your perspective. This reflects his need for power, undermining your role as a co-parent. It’s a major warning sign of emotional manipulation.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might accommodate him, suppressing their feelings to keep the peace and avoid conflict. This is wrong because it reinforces his controlling behavior and neglects your own needs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How does this behavior reflect your own boundaries, and what are your non-negotiables in a partnership?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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