Signs He’s Not As Busy As He Claims: Social Media Red Flags
The Situation
"He said he's busy but I see him posting on social media"
The Brutal Truth
He's not too busy; he just prioritizes posting online over making time for you. He’s choosing what serves him, leaving you in the dark about where you stand. This suggests emotional unavailability and a lack of respect for your time.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might bombard him with messages or seek constant reassurance, fearing rejection. This is a toxic cycle that undermines self-worth and pushes them further away.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to demand transparent communication in your dating life?
✨ What To Do Next
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