Why Always Texting First Means She Might Not Be Interested
The Situation
"I'm always the one texting first does that mean she's not interested"
The Brutal Truth
If you're always the one initiating contact, it's a clear sign she may not prioritize your connection. This behavior indicates low interest, and you deserve better. Don’t waste your energy on someone who doesn’t reciprocate.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might keep texting more frequently, seeking reassurance or trying to prove their worth, believing this will change the other person's interest. This is a wrong move; it only amplifies your anxiety and showcases insecurity.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only invest in relationships where your efforts are matched?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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