Is Tracking Location a Red Flag in Dating?
The Situation
"She tracks my location and questions every stop"
The Brutal Truth
He’s trying to control you out of jealousy and insecurity. Questioning your every move shows a lack of trust and respect for your autonomy. This isn’t love; it’s manipulation disguised as concern.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may feel compelled to explain themselves constantly or seek reassurance, believing they must justify their actions to avoid conflict. This is wrong because it reinforces the toxic cycle and their partner's controlling behavior.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What am I willing to tolerate in a relationship, and how does that reflect my self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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