Understanding Mixed Signals: What It Means When He Disappears After a Kiss
The Situation
"She kissed me goodnight then didn't text for days"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior shows a lack of respect and commitment. He enjoyed the moment but has no intention of following through. You're left hanging, feeling uncertain. This is a classic case of either emotional unavailability or poor communication skills.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsessively text him, seek validation, or spiral into insecurity over why he hasn't replied. This is wrong because it reinforces his lack of respect and keeps you tied to someone who isn’t matching your energy or intentions.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels like you don't deserve consistent communication after showing affection?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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