Understanding His Mixed Signals: MIA Then Normal
The Situation
"He goes MIA for days then acts like nothing happened"
The Brutal Truth
His silence means you’re not a priority. He’s testing how much you’ll tolerate his inconsistency before engaging again, showing a lack of respect for your time and feelings.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might obsessively text him to gain his attention, which pushes him further away and invalidates your worth. Stop seeking validation from someone who disappears.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What parts of yourself are you neglecting while waiting for someone else's attention?
✨ What To Do Next
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