Why He Unmatched You After Suggesting a Date: Red Flags
The Situation
"He unmatched me after I suggested meeting in person"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior shows he’s not ready for real intimacy or commitment. Unmatching after an invitation reveals he prefers to keep things casual and is unable to handle the vulnerability of meeting in person.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel the urge to reach out again, apologizing or showing extra effort to coax him back. This is wrong because it reinforces the idea that their worth is tied to his interest, rather than maintaining their own standards.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to stand firm in your need for someone who values real connection?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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