Using Therapist's Advice to Accuse You of Manipulation is Toxic
The Situation
"He uses my therapist's advice as evidence I'm manipulative"
The Brutal Truth
He’s deflecting responsibility by twisting your therapist’s advice to paint you as manipulative. This behavior is a tactic to control the narrative and shift blame away from his own issues. It’s a clear sign of emotional immaturity and gaslighting.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel the need to over-apologize or defend themselves frantically. This is wrong because it enables his gaslighting and diminishes your self-worth; you don't owe anyone proof of your intentions or kindness.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels the need to justify yourself to someone who twists your words? Where does that need come from?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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