When Age Is Just a Number but You’re Treated Like a Child: Red Flags
The Situation
"He said age is just a number but treats me like a child"
The Brutal Truth
He’s downplaying your maturity while simultaneously patronizing you. Age may be a number, but he’s using it to manipulate and dismiss your feelings, showing a lack of respect and emotional maturity. Watch out for this belittling behavior!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overcompensate by trying to please him or adapt to his expectations, thinking this will win his affection. This is a trap! You don’t earn respect by sacrificing your boundaries or self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How often do I accept behaviors that undermine my maturity and autonomy, and what would it look like to demand respect in my relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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