Am I Just a Rebound? Understanding His Behavior After Divorce
The Situation
"He keeps saying I'm a rebound from his divorce"
The Brutal Truth
His constant mention of you being a rebound reveals deep emotional baggage and a lack of commitment. He’s not ready for a serious relationship, and this will only lead to your heartbreak and frustration.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may cling to him for reassurance, seeking validation through his words. This move is toxic as it reinforces his lack of commitment and neglects your self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes it's okay to settle for being a rebound instead of being someone's priority?
✨ What To Do Next
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