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Why Wanting to Arrive Late to Your Own Wedding is a Red Flag

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 8/10
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The Situation

"He wants to arrive late to his own wedding for dramatic effect"

The Brutal Truth

His need for a dramatic entrance shows he's more interested in attention and theatrics than genuine commitment. This behavior reflects insecurity and a desire for control, signaling serious emotional unavailability and commitment issues.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person may overlook this red flag, convincing themselves it's romantic or charming, likely leading to betrayal of their own needs and self-worth.

đź’­ Something to Reflect On

How would your life change if you only accepted relationships where your partner’s actions aligned with their words?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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You don't have to figure this out alone. Let's work together to help you trust yourself, set boundaries, and attract the love you deserve.

Mariana - Relationship Coach

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