Why Did He Ask You Out Then Ghost Before the Date?
The Situation
"He asked me out then ghosted before the date"
The Brutal Truth
His asking you out was a game, not genuine interest. Ghosting shows he lacks respect for your time and feelings. It’s a reflection of his emotional unavailability and inability to commit. You deserve better than empty promises.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start over-analyzing their actions, questioning their worth, and reaching out repeatedly for reassurance. This is wrong because it fuels insecurity and grants power to someone who has shown a lack of respect.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What patterns in your dating life keep attracting emotionally unavailable people?
✨ What To Do Next
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