Why Ghosting After Claiming to Want Something Serious Is Toxic
The Situation
"He said he wanted something serious then ghosted"
The Brutal Truth
He didn’t mean it. He backtracked, scared of commitment or responsibility. His inconsistency shows he’s emotionally unavailable and lacks respect for your feelings.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsessively reach out, seeking answers or closure, which only makes you more vulnerable. It signals desperation and devalues your self-respect.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do I need to feel truly valued and respected in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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