Am I Asking for Too Much in a Relationship?
The Situation
"I'm starting to think I'm asking for too much in a relationship"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior suggests he’s incapable of meeting your needs and is projecting his insecurities onto you. You deserve better than to feel like asking for respect and clarity is too much. Don’t internalize this – it’s his issue, not yours.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start second-guessing their desires, apologizing for wanting more, or lowering their standards to keep the peace. This is wrong because it devalues their self-worth and compromises their needs. Remember, you’re worthy of what you desire in a relationship!
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of your past experiences makes you question your worth in asking for relationship needs?
✨ What To Do Next
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